In this article, I wanted to pass on to women some of the conclusions I arrived at after my extensive observation of men, women, and their relationships. How is this related to cooking romantic food recipes in romantic evenings at home? Read on. You be the judge.

Let's first put two and two together. Observing men, I concluded that they actually are creatures of nature. Since early in their lives, nature's designer sends men a message: take all the women you can. It is not fathers. It is not older brothers or uncles. It is not the society. Men look at each other in their eyes and they know the persistent and inescapable message sent to them by nature's designer when it comes to women. That designer does it using three intense and powerful cocktail with persuasive ingredients: a set of strong and deeply embedded instincts and a vigorous sex drive all wrapped up in the mighty Testosterone.

Here is my call to get real, ladies.

A man cannot voluntarily stop nature nor will nature change its intended course because of a man's marital status. A man will always be a man, and we women must not attempt to change nature's well thought-out ways; even if we do not like its ways. Should we wives be silly enough to give our husbands a relationship that progressively gets old, boring, and tasteless, all he is likely to do is to act on what nature's designer's cocktail imposes on him.

The bad news is that since the last two decades or so of the XX century a large percentage of women fervently wave the flag of "I am independent and liberated" and willing to get involved ~and much too often accepting sex~ with guys they meet at the office or other places. Personally, I do not blame guys going with the flow. 

The good news is that the same designer orchestrated something meaningful to counteract the cocktail, and that is that few things are more powerfully engaging to a married man than coming to his wife who chose to prepare romantic food recipes in intimate and romantic evenings at home.

Since I discovered that, I became a fervent defender in using the power of food recipes to create the romantic environment, the mood, and the enchanting events that follow. They lastingly get etched in both our hearts. When we are cooking romantic food recipes to create those unforgettable events, the bond with him gets boosted as his feelings for us get refreshed and invigorated. In the process, we wives have a chance to transform our romantic food recipes into bomb shells of nutrients to nourish both our health, and to keep up his virility.

Although it may not be possible to do it every day, I learned that cooking romantic food recipes realistically open the gates to unforgettable and fabulous romantic evenings at home; and when done consistently, they are responsible for boosting our relationship until romanticism becomes the norm in our lives rather than something that occurs "Yes... some times". The purpose is to preserve our right to make our men remain in love with us rather than coming to us after romantic encounters with other women.

My experience and my work is directed to women who are not yet totally convinced that life may not be what we women would like it to be. We sing songs about the way a relationship should be, but facts of life and nature's designer may not sing along. It is up to you and I to bury our head in the sand, to confront reality head-on, to pretend that our relationship will always be safe, or not.

We now know, however, that there is such splendid tool on our side when
cooking romantic food recipes in unforgettable romantic evenings at home.

About the Author:

* Sheryl Josserme
* Author of "Cooking For Your Man"

A strong believer that a relationship is more than a Marriage License.

Her e-book unveils a most efficient way to fuel a relationship before
another license becomes worthless: cooking romantic food recipes.